Make or Break Community
A private online space where I’ll help you move from relationship confusion to clarity – so you can make a decision you can trust.
When you’re stuck between staying and leaving, it can feel incredibly lonely.
Some days, you feel hopeful.
Other days, exhausted, resentful, or ready to walk away.
You may have tried talking things through with friends and family.
Read books.
Listened to podcasts.
Searched for answers on ChatGPT or Google.
And still, you find yourself circling the same question:
Should I stay, or should I leave?
I created the Make or Break Community to give you a calm, supportive space to reflect, ask questions, and find direction in your relationship.
This isn’t a space where you’ll be told what to do.
It’s a space where you’ll feel supported while working toward the decision that’s right for you – whether that means rebuilding your relationship or separating with clarity and self-awareness.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
What’s Inside the Community…
Start Here
A gentle welcome from me to help you settle in, understand how the community works, and know what to expect.
Feeling Stuck
For the moments when you feel caught between hope and exhaustion – when the relationship feels too good to leave, but too painful to stay.
Relationship Patterns
Understand the cycles that keep repeating, including conflict, disconnection, parenting pressures, stress, illness, and outside influences affecting your relationship.
The Decision Room
The heart of the community.
A guided space to explore staying, leaving, fear of regret, and the deeper questions that help you move towards a decision you can trust.
When You Decide to Part
Support for separating with dignity, care, and self-respect – including children, finances, living arrangements, divorce, mediation, and moving forward.
Live Coaching and Support
A space for live coaching, Q&A sessions, weekly prompts, and ongoing guidance from me as you move through the process.
You Don’t Have to Carry This Alone
Many people stay stuck because they don’t know what to do next.
The Make or Break Community gives you a calm, supportive space to reflect, feel less alone, and move toward clarity.
Whether you choose to rebuild your relationship or separate respectfully, you’ll have guidance and support every step of the way.
FAQs
How much does it cost?
This much
What you’ll learn
The Decision Phase is divided into 3 segments.
Where are you now? How in or out are you?
Explore your current:
- environment/living situation
- thinking
- emotions/feelings
- what type of conversations are you having with your partner
You will be invited to book a personal session as soon as possible in this segment.
What brought you to this point?
What is the relational dance between you – when they do this, I do that, which leads to more….
Where are you on the Blame vs. Responsibility spectrum
The Decision
Have you uncovered enough to want to explore staying together?
Book an individual session with Jayne
PHASE 2 – The Path of: Creating Your Compelling Future Together
– The problem of modern marriages – we want EVERYTHING!
– Removing the biggest blocks to happiness.
– Weed out the losing strategies – controlling, criticism/contempt, being right, tit-for-tat/point scoring, withdrawal/stonewalling, unbridled self expression
– What behaviours do you repeat that don’t serve you?
– Needs, values and rules and valuing the differences
– Growing into respectful and kind communication
– Disagreement is necessary for growth in relationships; learn the skills to do it constructively
– Mastering the Repair Process
– Intimacy (Into-me-see), connection and sex
PHASE 2 – The Path of: Respectful Parting
– Coming to terms with things
– Expressing and managing feelings – tools and survival strategies for the early days
– Beginning to think about the practicalities – how fast are things moving?
– Let’s talk about the children
– Let’s talk about money, assets, debts and property
– Moving to divorce or staying at separation for now? – What are the options?
Payment options
Choose your preferred payment option:
Three payments of £1,250 over 3 months, discounted to £3,500 if you pay in full.
Get In Touch
Call
+44 (0) 7970 257013
jayne@makeorbreakcoaching.co.uk
Hours
Mon - Fri: 9am - 6pm
Saturday: 9am - 3pm